Saturday, June 29, 2013

Ohhhh Canada!

Conversation is a discourse that holds within it the possibility of mutual conversion.
Ched Myers & Elaine Enns, Ambassadors Of Reconciliation, Volume II (2012)


We are all involved in politics whether we like it or not. Otherwise you are in denial.
Bill Blaikie

Mitakuye Oyasin
Lakota Sioux Phrase used to end prayers meaning "everything and everybody is connected"

First time in Canada for both of us. On Tuesday, the warmest day of the summer so far (30 degrees celsius!), we headed to Winnipeg, just an hour north of the Minnesota/Canada border. We met A LOT of fascinating people this week. When we got to town, we shot over to Canadian Mennonite University, south of the Assiniboine River, where Ched Myers and Elaine Enns were teaching a one-week intensive on Restorative Justice at the Canadian School Of Peacebuilding. They were teaching the material from the "textbooks" they co-authored on the subject: Ambassadors of Reconciliation, Volumes 1 & 2.

They are uniquely gifted, a rare marriage blending expertise in both the biblical/theological (Ched) and practical/experiential (Elaine) notions of bringing together victims and offenders towards reconciliation and forgiveness which leads to authentic healing (as opposed to the normal societal practice of lawyers, denial of wrong-doing and harsh sentencing upon guilty pronouncements). Their Bartimaeus Cooperative Ministries is dedicated to bringing together the seminary, the sanctuary and the streets in pursuit of peace and justice. Ched & Elaine have had a HUGE impact on us, in both word and deed. Here's how they describe (in AOR, Volume 2) where they are coming from theologically (a starting point that we resonate with greatly):

...we identify as noted with the Anabaptist tradition of Christianity, especially its historic commitments to radical discipleship, to biblical justice and nonviolence, and to noncooperation with all forms of state domination.


On Tuesday night, we were honored to attend a BBQ at the home of Gerald/Esther Gerbrandt. Gerald was the president of CMU for decades, presiding over the school back in the 90s when Elaine was a student. He held the presence of a warm, scholarly grandfather, quick to joke, but also interested in talking about more controversial subjects (like the Mennonite denomination's current wrestling match with [homo]sexuality issues). The dinner Esther prepared was top-notch, but her rubarb dessert dish was absolutely heavenly.

On Wednesday afternoon, Ched and Elaine invited Bill Blaikie to speak to their class. I had never heard of Blaikie, but he is well-known to virtually all Canadians due to his work in the spotlight as a federal legislator for more than 2 decades. He's 6'6" with a grey beard and a quick wit. What is particularly unique about him is his commitment to the prophetic "social gospel" Christian tradition, which of course, bears fruit in progressive policies. Like his mentor Tommy Douglass (the Canadian prime minister who courageously fought for universal health coverage half a century ago), Blaikie is an ordained minister with the United Church of Canada.


Blaikie learned to develop thick skin, not with secular legislators and constituents, but with fellow Christians, most of whom are obsessed with "below the belt" issues and tend to triumphantly claim a monopoly on "the Christian position" on every issue. But in class, Blaikie proclaimed that "if people take their faith seriously, they will eventually go down the road of the social gospel," a scenario that played out for him early in life as he studied the message of the Hebrew prophets to repent of personal sins oppressive socio-economic policies of the 1% elites. But, of course, there are far too many Christians living in denial he says, citing the 8th chapter of Mark, of those "who have ears but fail to hear."

Blaikie viewed his vocation as that of a "double-agent." Back in 1999, the WTO was holding meetings in Seattle and there were massive anti-globalization protests going on in the streets. Blaikie spent most of his time in the streets, but he held the credentials to go inside the meetings as well. He felt much more comfortable with the activists. Ultimately, he believed that it was more important to be faithful to God's idea of justice than it was to be successful. But this didn't mean he courted defeat. It was always pertinent "to be successful enough to be in the room." This was the tension that Blaikie constantly lived in.

He kept his head and heart straight by reading theology everyday. This was his crucial spiritual practice. "There's a tendency in Christian circles," he laments, "to love God with all your heart and soul and then to give your mind to someone else." He was always on the look out for those so-called "neo-liberals" who do whatever they possibly can to reduce the power of the government to keep corporate power accountable. He cites (as one small example) the cosmetic pesticides industry, or what he calls "have-a-nice-lawn-industry," which has consistently embraced a strategy to challenge folks in court in order to settle out of court, intimidating the rest of us while staying under the radar at the same time.

There really hasn't been an American politician, on the national level, who has combined a passion for socio-economic justice and a fervor for Christian faith quite like Blaikie has in Canada. Perhaps the great Civil Rights Movement leader and Georgia congressman John Lewis is the only American correlation. Lewis, a graduate of American Baptist Seminary in Nashville, was, at 21, the youngest speaker 50 years ago at the March on Washington.

This week Lindsay and I celebrated from afar the US Supreme Court's overturning of the Defense of Marriage Act. Here's what Lewis announced from the floor of the House about the strongly bipartisan-supported DOMA back in 1996 when it was being debated:

This bill is a slap in the face of the Declaration of Independence. It denies gay men and women the right of liberty and the pursuit of happiness. Marriage is a basic human right. You cannot tell people they cannot fall in love. I will not turn my back on another American. I will not oppress my fellow human being. I fought too hard and too long against discrimination based on race and color not to stand up against discrimination based on sexual orientation.

So maybe Blaikie is the white Canadian John Lewis. Brilliant.

On Wednesday night, Ched & Elaine invited us to join them for a Thai dinner with the political-theological cartoonist Bob Haverluck, Blaikie and his wife. We then went to "dessert" with several of Ched/Elaine's friends (old & new), a fantastic line-up of passionate and brilliant Winnipeggers:

Aiden Enns, the founder and editor of Geez Magazine, talked of the vital soul-benefits of going off-line and making time to put our hands in the soil of a backyard garden. He also lamented our society's insane practice of removing human waste our shit by flushing it into potable water our potential drinking water. He passionately shared about his 3-year experiment with a compost toilet in his home. It doesn't use water and creates compost for his backyard garden. Not sure how this works in a studio apartment in Irvine, but it opened our eyes (and noses?) to socio-political-spiritual practice that is becoming popular with folks who care about the Land. Holy shit!


We were also joined by Scott Kroeker, a chemistry professor at the University of Manitoba whose life was changed after reading Ched's Who Will Roll Away The Stone two decades ago, Matt Dueck and Cicily Hildebrand who help run the Canadian School For Peacebuilding and will be heading to Fuller Seminary in a year, and Kenton Lobe, a professor at Canadian Mennonite University and the mastermind behind the University community garden.

It was great to listen to Ched & Elaine talk about their own theological journey with the garden in their Oak View, CA backyard. Tending the soil has kinesthetically taught them about patience, interdependence, trust and the overwhelming Life force springing up everywhere around us. The capacity for Growth is so often overlooked and underrated. No wonder Jesus used so many stories and analogies from Nature: mustard seeds, yeast, vineyards, soil, living water, lilies and ravens. And no wonder we open up the Scriptures to find so many eventual followers of the Divine path connecting with the Land in shockingly ordinary ways: Abram & Sarai at the oak tree, Zaccheaus climbing a sycamore tree, a woman at the well and a prodigal feeding pods to the pigs (just to name a few).

Building a backyard garden, all these folks were echoing, is a small part of participating in the Kingdom of God. We shouldn't expect quick, massive world-changes, but this small-but-crucial spiritual practice powerfully transforms our souls into Something authentic while chipping away at the insanity of our society's factory farm system of growing manufacturing food.

On Thursday we got the opportunity to hear Mubarak Awad speak at the CMU lunch banquet. A Palestinian and self-proclaimed "Troublemaker," Awad was booted out of the Holy Land by the Israeli Supreme Court in 1988 for his participation in nonviolent civil disobedience. Awad, as a follower of Jesus, is deeply committed to nonviolent action and enemy love as he "fights" for justice in Palestine. In addition to his many peace and justice activities, he is currently working with an organization called Gaza's Ark, raising money to build an ark to challenge the illegal and inhumane Israeli blockade of Gaza

On Friday, we attended Ched & Elaine's class to see Harley Eagle, a facilitator of restorative justice of Dakota descent. He is married to a white Mennonite woman and they live in Winnipeg with their two home-schooled daughters.


Harley is committed to a "circle process" of dialogue, walking together in a practice of listening to the other. Particularly, Harley is interested in a reconciling process between indigenous (1st Nations) and white settler people. A key to this process is the unresolved trauma that has been erased from the memories of white folk. We simply do not know where we come from, and therefore, unwittingly perpetuate the cycle of violence and domination in all our grasping for control. To start this process of recovery, we whiteys need to flip the script and embrace the Way of our marginalized indigenous brothers and sisters. We have an enormous amount of violence in our histories and we are literally bursting with guilt, shame and a survivalist mentality. We need to finally learn how to walk as guests on this Land and this will begin with our own healing.


On Friday night we were invited to dine at the home of Elaine's best friend Cheryl and her on-call doctor/husband Carl. The spread was extraordinary and Carl assured us all that the Canadian Universal Healthcare was working fantastically for patients...and doctors (I've heard many Americans claim that doctors in Canada are grossly underpaid).

This week was filled with the little differences that make journeys to a new Land so sweet: Canadian accents, lightening storms, sunsets at 10pm and more Mennonite and Aborginal folks than we've ever met. Our heads and hearts have been filled with paradigm-shifting lectures and deep conversations. Winnipeg has a flat, rather boring geography with bad roads exacerbated by summer road construction (do you really think they work on roads when it is below-40?). But it is filled with wide-open parks and forests and flowing rivers, with a nice little downtown communal space ("The Forks") to get centered. We will certainly carry all these sights and sounds with us back to the States. On to Wisconsin.


A view of Winnipeg across the Red River where we had some great runs


In front of our Winnipeg headquarters: Mondragon, a vegan/anarchist coffee house, restaurant, bookstore and grocery


Lindsay spending a little time reading James Douglass' amazing book about JFK's death


Our last night at a pizzeria in the Corydon district

Thursday, June 20, 2013

Mile High Meanderings: Louisville, Boulder, Denver...and Lawrence!

And talk of poems and prayers and promises and things that we believe in.
How sweet it is to love someone, how right it is to care.
How long it's been since yesterday, what about tomorrow
and what about our dreams and all the memories we share
?
John Denver

We left Highlands Ranch (we only left a Richard Rohr book and Lindsay's running shoes) Monday afternoon and headed 50 miles north to Louisville, a beautiful suburb of Boulder. We stayed with Steve and Gunilla Sorensen, a couple I met in 1991, the summer before my senior year in high school. Steve was (and still is!) the head coach and executive director of News Release Basketball, an Evangelical Christian basketball organization that recruits players and coaches to travel to Europe to play games against local club and pro teams and conduct clinics for area youth. I was playing on the team back in '91, but signed up to coach and direct tours from 1997 to 2000.

The Sorensens have had a major impact on my life and thinking. Their focus on Christian discipleship and community formation (as opposed to stressing individual conversion and personal "salvation" models of witness) in both the States and Europe shaped my early understanding of what it means to be a Christian were a vital precursor to my current rooting in Anabaptism. If it looks like Gunilla is 20 years younger than Steve that's because she is ;)...another major impact Steve has had on me.


It was great to reconnect with the Sorensens and Sean/Content VonRoenn (below with their two children: they met each other on News Release tours during the summer of '98). Gunilla is fired up that NRB is bringing a team to her native Sweden for the first time ever!


We went for a run on the Boulder Creek Trail, just a stone's throw from the University of Colorado and the Rocky Mountains:


On Tuesday night, we headed to downtown Denver to find our good friend Gavin Fabian hard at work. He founded MedPassage, a medical tech company, and moved to Denver last year to be geographically close to his business partner...and to get out of Orange County! Gavin refers to his creation as "disruptive," changing the paradigm of how device companies and medical centers conduct business. It's highly collaborative and keeps the powers accountable by disclosing costs of products. It also seeks to eliminate the middle-man--the deeply inefficient medical device company salesman who curries favor with doctors and hospital execs by taking them out to high society dinners and, yes, strip clubs.

Gavin has taken a huge leap-of-faith to start this company as he travels around North America pitching MedPassage to wealthy friends and venture capitalists. When we walked by the sparkling new Davita headquarters building in Denver, he told me that he often wonders if he should just join the 20-somethings in brand new suits making $150,000 at a safe job with solid benefits. Here's to Gavin and MedPassage beating the odds (and the corporate lawyers) to make it big by changing the way devices are bought and sold. It will be a better (and cheaper!) world with a thriving MedPassage.


Gav insisted that we ride bikes to his apartment. He and his wife Christina each have a B-Bikes city membership. $60 per year allows them to use bikes stored at racks all over the city. All they have to do is insert their credit card and they are ready to roll.


In June 2010, I was honored to officiate at the Malibu Canyon wedding of Gavin and Christina ("Gavstini"). Now they live just a few blocks from Coors Field and the Great Divide Brewing Co.


The four of us ate a late dinner on the rooftop of Linger, a chic diner in the LoHi District of Denver, watching the lightening storm go by and then headed downstairs to Little Man for some salted Oreo ice cream.


A very romantic evening. Indeed.


On Wednesday morning, we bid the Sorensens and the Rockies good-bye and hit up the Great Plains. A stop in Colby, Kansas provided hot beverages and a tornado warning.


Our tradition, since Labor Day Weekend 2005 when we got engaged, is to hit up Pyramid Pizza as soon as we arrive in Lawrence:


The weather was perfect for the weekly Concert in the Park:


Tuesday, June 18, 2013

I Mustache You A Question: A Hipster Father's Day in CO

Our godchildren Trey (7) and Iree (4) know how to celebrate their Daddy Dale.




The twins head to Dale's last ordination event:



Sunday, June 16, 2013

The Beautiful Reality: Highlands Ranch, Colorado


At their best, religious and spiritual communities help us discover this pure and naked spiritual encounter. At their worst, they simply make us more ashamed, pressuring us to cover up more, pushing us to further enhance our image with the best designer labels and latest spiritual fads, weighing us down with layer upon layer of heavy, uncomfortable, pretentious, well-starched religiosity.
Brian McLaren

On Friday, we left Mission Viejo at 5:12am and traveled 1000 miles, through the deserts, the valleys and the Rockies to get to Highlands Ranch just after midnight. We only ran out of gas (!) once...just 2 miles from Cedar City, UT. That's right: the Prius went 450 miles on one 11-gallon tank of gas.


We are staying with our great friends, Dale and Stacy Fredrickson, whose children Trey (7) and Iree (3) are our godchildren! Here we are 3 years ago at Trey's baptism in Rifle, CO:


We got the opportunity to participate in the Wildflowers service last night, a church-within-a-church community that meets once a month on Saturday night at St. Andrew United Methodist Church. Dale and Stacy cast a vision, organize, delegate and facilitate the service. Last night we worshipped outside and we had a phenomenal view of the Rockies (see above).


Yesterday morning, we got to sneak into the United Methodist annual conference and listen to guest speaker Brian McLaren address the assembly of pastors. McLaren has been a vital theological conversation for both the Aireys and Fredricksons. Dale introduced me to McLaren sometime back in 2001 or 2002. We read his little book More Ready Than You Realize together and Lindsay and I read his New Kind of Christianity trilogy and Generous Orthodoxy early in our theological/spiritual pilgrimage together.

McLaren was a pastor at a large church in the Washington DC suburbs and educated himself into a kind of Christian faith now largely labeled "emergent," meaning a forward-thinking, progressive version of following Jesus. McLaren is passionate about re-forming and re-framing our connection to the God of the Bible, taking the focus off what happens in the church building and living out a "gospel" in real time that is far more holistic than most contemporary expressions of Christianity: social, political, economic and spiritual. God invites us ALL into The Beautiful Reality, an amazing dance that EVERY living thing participates in. God wants us to join in on the healing and redemption of the whole world...not just our souls.

Tuesday, June 11, 2013

A Virtual Prayer of Blessing



From an email from Ched Myers this morning:

Well, this will be an epic trip. We pray that the Spirit both guides your way, and brings you to clarity about the next season of your lives. It’s a sacred thing, pilgrimage is. Wish we could lay hands on you and send you off. Consider this a virtual prayer of blessing.

Wednesday, June 5, 2013

Ready To Roll


My Lord God, I have no idea where I am going. I do not see the road ahead of me. I cannot know for certain where it will end. Nor do I really know myself, and the fact that I think I am following your will does not mean that I am actually doing so. But I believe that the desire to please you does in fact please you. And I hope I have that desire in all that I am doing. I hope that I will never do anything apart from that desire. And I know that if I do this you will lead me by the right road, though I may know nothing about it. Therefore I will trust you always though I may seem to be lost and in the shadow of death. I will not fear, for you are ever with me, and you will never leave me to face my perils alone. Amen.
Thomas Merton

On June 14, Lindsay and I embark on a 10-week journey across the United States (and Canada!) in a Toyota Prius that our good friend Mike Smith has generously allowed us to borrow. The stars have aligned to give us the Time and resources for this pilgrimage: my summer was extended about 10 days due to CA state budget cuts (furlough days!), Lindsay has achieved her 3000 client hours and is now in the final stage of her licensure process (studying for the MFT this Fall) and the lease for our apartment is up so we can take the few items we own and put them in storage for the summer.

We love driving together. We took our first roadtrip in January 2005 for our honeymoon (Carmel, Mendocino, Kern River) and we've made annual journeys since. This one will be unique. We are traveling to see some old friends and meet new ones. We will be seeing some amazing sights, going for runs in the city and in the wilderness, floating rivers and eating good food!

However, we are particularly interested in visiting radical discipleship communities that are thriving in different places throughout North America. Our mentors Ched Myers and Elaine Enns are connecting us with many of these communities and we look forward to hearing their stories. Some of these our Catholic Worker Houses of hospitality compelled by the vision of Dorothy Day and Peter Maurin. Some of them are rooted in the movement known as "new monasticism." Some of them are devoted to specific causes like racial reconcilation, restorative justice, the prophetic denunciation of nuclear weaponry and drone killings, solidarity with the urban poor, sanctuary for immigrants and protecting the oppressed and abused. We have been involved in intentional Christian communities ("house church") for the past 6 years and we'd like to learn from the vast wisdom and experience of these prophetic leaders and organizers.

We look forward to documenting this "once in a lifetime" trip on this blog. Feel free to comment or email us recommendations along the way...we are always looking for new adventures!!!